Having a fight with your wife is never a pleasant experience. What's more, a fight can easily transform into something that will cast its shadow on your marriage for a long time, unless you know how to ensure you and your wife can work things out. This is what this article is all about: how to make up with your wife after a fight.
First of all, don't worry too much. Fighting can actually be good for your relationship (as long as they're not frequent or insulting) but you do need to know how to resolve them in the right way so they won't affect your relationship.
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Here are some tips on how to make up after a fight:
1. If you know you're to blame apologize. There's nothing wrong with saying that you're sorry. This doesn't make you weak and won't leave you at a disadvantage in the future. However, if you're going to apologize make sure to mean it. Don't just do it to get it over with. Put some feeling into it. Another thing I advise against is promising that you won't do something ever again. Your wife may remember that the next time you fight (over the same reasons). Apologize but don't make any promises you may not keep.
2. If you don't think you're to blame you don't have to apologize. It's okay to let a fight resolve itself. However, if you see that you're not making up then you need to be the bigger person and broach the subject. Solve things quickly and don't let them sour.
3. You don't have to say anything to make up with your wife after a fight. Sometimes, holding her hand or giving her a hug without saying a single word will pass on the message that you love her completely. Try it and you'll see what I mean.
4. Don't go to bad angry at each other. Make sure to kiss goodnight and arrive at some form of resolution before you turn off the light for the night.
5. While I don't like buying presents to buy forgiveness, a small and meaningful gesture may go a long way. You don't need to spend a ton of money for this to work. Just buy something from the heart and you will see her melt.
Use these 5 tips and you'll be able to make up much more easily. However, the best thing is to be open with each other and you'll be less inclined to fight in the first place.
How to Make Up With Your Wife After a Fight
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Kate Dixon is an author and sexless relationship expert. She has written a book for women in sexless relationships. To read more about Kate Dixon's method of healing sexless marriage, go to this website: How to Fix a Sexless Marriage
Kate Dixon is an affiliate of Michael Webb.